Girls answer this one right here...........?

At the end of the day, your issue is shared with millions of people. It is hard to meet people and make meaningful connections. So, I wouldn't stress out too much. But I also see that you are at an age where you want a serious relationship. I think there are tons of women out there who are not emotionally detached etc, so might I suggest you look around a little more? Are you going for a particular type?